Do You Need to Struggle to Succeed? Choose Ease Instead.

Sowmya Rangarajan
5 days ago
4 min read

We’re told “no pain, no gain”—but what if that belief is the very thing keeping life hard? Hard work creates results. Struggle is optional. In this article, we’ll dissolve the

“success = suffering” myth and show you how to invite ease, worthiness, and flow—without losing ambition.

The Hidden Belief: “If It’s Easy, It’s Not Worth It”

Many of us carry a preconditioned belief system that quietly glorifies hardship. When things come easily, old scripts whisper:

“It’s not worth it if I didn’t bleed for it.”

“If it came easily, it will go away (evil eye!).”

“This is unfamiliar—there must be a hidden problem.”

“Suffering proves I’m strong; martyrdom earns respect.”

“If I highlight how hard my life is, I’ll receive attention and compassion.”

These beliefs are sticky because they’re socially rewarded. But they also keep us looping through the same challenges.

Why We Keep Recreating Hardship (Even When We Don’t Want To)

At the root is a subconscious worthiness wound. When we don’t feel worthy of ease, we unconsciously sabotage easy outcomes. And because energy follows attention, thoughts like “life is always a struggle” become self-fulfilling.

Over time, this becomes a generational narrative: lack attracts lack—in money, relationships, and emotional safety—regardless of one’s social status. The pattern persists until we consciously rewrite it.

The Shift: Acceptance Creates Ease

Paradoxically, the gateway to change is accepting what is—fully, kindly, now.

Be here now: Whether you’re just making ends meet or thriving, embrace the moment completely.

Acceptance ≠ resignation: It’s the stable ground from which wise action becomes obvious.

Choose a new narrative: Your choice to think differently creates ripples that reorganize your outer reality.

When you stop wrestling with the present, your life stops wrestling with you.

Redikall Statements to Release the Struggle Pattern

Use these statements daily. Say them out loud, write them, or record and play them gently in the background. (Pro tip: Breathe in on “With Soul’s Love,” breathe out on the rest.)

Forgiveness & Release

With Soul’s Love, I graciously forgive myself for making others struggle in the past.

With Soul’s Love, I graciously forgive myself for not allowing others an easy, effortless life in the past.

With Soul’s Love, I graciously forgive myself for making others feel unworthy of ease in the past.

Transform & Transcend

With Soul’s Love, I transform and transcend my struggles.

With Soul’s Love, I transform and transcend my need to suffer.

With Soul’s Love, I transform and transcend feeling unworthy of an easy life.

Synchronize with Ease & Prosperity

With Soul’s Love, I graciously synchronize with my worthiness for an easy life.

With Soul’s Love, I graciously synchronize with prosperity consciousness.

With Soul’s Love, I graciously awaken ease in my life.

Redikall Affirmation

✨ Life is easy, life is effortless, and life is a lot of fun. ✨

A 3-Step Daily Practice (5 Minutes)

Step 1: Notice the narrative (1 minute).

Catch thoughts like “This shouldn’t be this easy” or “I don’t deserve this.” Label them kindly: Old program.

Step 2: Neutralize with Redikall (2 minutes).

Choose one Forgiveness statement and one Transform statement. Repeat them slowly while breathing.

Step 3: Anchor the upgrade (2 minutes).

Say the Redikall Affirmation three times, and take one tiny action aligned with ease (e.g., ask for help, simplify a task, set a clear boundary).

A Mini Case: From Martyr Mode to Momentum

Riya worked hard and wore struggle like a badge. When good opportunities arrived, she braced for disaster and overcomplicated decisions. After two weeks of daily Redikall statements and choosing one “ease move” per day, her workload felt lighter, collaborations improved, and the same projects started flowing. The work was still meaningful—just no longer punishing.

Quick Wins to Invite Effortless Success

Retire the martyr story: You don’t need pain to prove worth.

Celebrate what came easily: Treat ease as a sign of alignment, not a trap.

Protect your focus: Replace doom-scrolling with a 3-minute breath-and-affirm ritual.

Flip the script: When you catch “This is too easy,” say, “Ease is my new normal.”

Share the vibe: Speak ease into your home, team, and relationships—language seeds reality.

FAQs

Q1: Is struggle ever useful?

Sometimes discomfort signals growth—but chronic struggle isn’t a requirement for success. Learn to distinguish productive challenge from identity-level suffering.

Q2: If I choose ease, will I get lazy?

No. Ease improves clarity and energy, so your actions are more effective. It’s about smart effort over constant strain.

Q3: How long will it take to feel a shift?

Many feel lighter within days of consistent Redikall practice. Deep patterns unwind faster when you pair Statements with small, ease-aligned actions.

Q4: Can I practice Redikall alongside therapy or meditation?

Yes. Redikall Statements complement therapeutic and meditative work beautifully by updating the inner narrative.

Your Next Step with Redikall

Ready to retire the “success = suffering” script and welcome ease?

Start with Redikall Spiritual Solution Level 1 (Online or Onsite).

Explore our Free Resources to try guided practices and statements.

Join a Community Circle to practice ease with gentle accountability.

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