In the relentless pursuit of love and connection, we often venture far and wide, seeking that elusive oasis of affection and acceptance. Our hearts, like parched travelers in a desert, long for that quenching sip of emotional fulfillment. However, we frequently overlook the most profound and enriching source of love: the wellspring within ourselves.
The Mirage of External Love
The world outside promises love in various forms - in the eyes of a partner, the words of friends, or the approval of society. Like a mirage, this love seems to offer the refreshment we crave, yet it often leaves us feeling even more thirsty. Why? Because external sources of love are fleeting and often conditional. They depend on circumstances, people, and their perceptions, all of which are as changeable as the desert sands.
Turning Inward: The True Emotional Oasis
The journey to self-love begins with a simple, yet profound shift: turning inward.
Within each of us lies an emotional oasis, a boundless source of love, peace, and acceptance. This internal sanctuary offers what external sources cannot - unconditional love, unwavering support, and the profound realization that we are enough just as we are. Unfortunately, the search for love from the external world, often makes us ignore the possibility of enriching inner resources.
People treat you the way you treat yourself
Remember this golden rule: People do not necessarily treat you the way you treat them. You often pamper others and give others too much attention and they tend to take you for granted, take advantage of your quest for love, and ignore you when you have nothing more to offer. Because they are not in love with you but love what gives them or makes them feel loved. Instead, your self-love and self-care will inspire people to love you and care for you.
You deserve love
Do not evaluate your worthiness based on others' love for you. If you wait for others to make you feel loved, your self-worth will depend on others' love. Know that you deserve to be loved and prove it to yourself by immersing yourself in self-love. Let there be a magical transformation.
Steps to Discover Your Inner Oasis
Self-Acceptance: Embrace every part of yourself - your strengths and vulnerabilities. Your worth is not determined by external validation.
Inner Stillness: Practice Redikall to rediscover inner stillness. These practices help quiet the external noise so you tune into your inner voice.
Self-Compassion: Be kind to yourself. Recognize that imperfection is part of the human experience and offer yourself the same compassion you would offer to a loved one.
Self-Gratitude: Cultivate gratitude for the person you are. Acknowledge your journey, your resilience, and your uniqueness.
Nurturing Your Needs: Identify your emotional and physical needs. Prioritize self-care and activities that bring you joy and fulfillment.
Being Love: Be the love you crave from the outside world. It is a journey from feeling unloved to being the fountain of love when you rediscover the oasis of love within. Right now, it would feel either impossible or a remote possibility. However, you can find the oasis of love within and attract many souls thirsty for love in your haven-like sanctuary.
The Ripple Effect of Self-Love
When you start loving yourself unconditionally, you create a ripple effect. You no longer seek validation or love from external sources to fill a void. Instead, you engage with the world from fullness and self-assurance. This shift enhances your well-being. It also transforms your interactions with others. Relationships become more genuine and connections more profound because they arise not from need but from a desire to share the abundance within you.
Embracing the Journey
Remember, discovering your emotional oasis is a journey, not a destination. It requires patience, persistence, and, most importantly, a gentle heart. There will be days when the desert winds seem overpowering when the inner oasis remains unwavering and ever-nourishing.
In closing, I invite you to embark on this beautiful journey of self-discovery. Turn inward. You'll find that the love you've been seeking has been within you all along. Your emotional oasis awaits – a place of peace, love, and profound fulfillment. Remember, the most enduring love is the love that blossoms from within.
1. Schedule a free session with a senior mentor to plan your journey inward
2. If you are a Foundation Member, take help from fellow members and mentors and seek support from them.
3. If you are a Classic and Premium Member, get guidance from the Redikall App on enhancing self-love and self-worth.
4. If you are a Premium Member, seek the help of the mentors to help you interpret the guidance correctly. Get Mentored as you journey within to rediscover the oasis of love.
5. If you are a Spiritual Solution Level 1 Student, dissociate all unhealthy associations with love. If you had unpleasant experiences in the past, you may subconsciously block the experience of love.
6. If you are a Spiritual Solution Level 2 Student, find the reprogramming statement to enrich the possibility of a life of love.
7. If you are a Spiritual Solution Level 3 Student, heal inner children with adverse associations with love. Heal the past life pre-programming with unpleasant experiences with love. Withdraw your energy from past relationships so that you can be available to yourself one hundred percent. You can also think of a future progression to understand your journey of rediscovery of self-love.
8. If you are a Spiritual Solution Level 4 Student, you would have already sorted several relationships by now. If you hope for love from some hopeless relationship, withdraw your energy and attention and turn inward. Use this energy and attention to enrich the relationship with self.
9. If you are a Spiritual Solution Level 5 Student, work with various facets of loving relationships and corresponding belief systems. Go beyond all the beliefs and conditioning to rediscover self-love irrespective of wealth. Do not wait for wealth, relationships, or prosperity to feel loved. Discover how your self-love attracts the resources.
10. If you are a Spiritual Solution Level 6 Student, practice ‘being’ love.
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