Blog by Mamatha Honnavar
Polite Denial
The previous blog was about contributing various resources. Today if the blog states that you can refuse to contribute, this may seem like a contradictory blog.
The truth is, you need to contribute in a way where you are in total acceptance of your willing contribution & not contribute where you feel forced. Because, when you contribute feeling forced, anyway the receiver isn’t going to benefit from your contribution. He/she may feel burdened/obligated or even disrespected through your contribution.
So, the pressing question could be “Should I contribute or not?”
We all need to contribute in a balanced manner, having total faith that, ‘I am only contributing as a channel.’
"Whatever the receiver is meant to receive is being contributed through me." Then it's okay for us to say “no” to contributing if it's not according to the plan. People around you will also respect your decision. You don't have to feel forced or pressured to make any contribution.
When you say "No" to any request because you feel pressured or obligated, or when you're only saying "Yes" to please others and avoid rejection, your "No" is completely valid and aligns with your thoughts, feelings, and desires. It's important to politely decline when you need to say "No" to stay true to yourself.
The Redikall Statements will inspire you to take a stand & say “no” politely.
With Redikall Consciousness, I purify my compulsion to agree.
With Redikall Consciousness, I purify the fear of rejection.
With Redikall Consciousness, I transform & transcend my obsessive contribution.
With Redikall Consciousness, I transform & transcend my inability to say “no”.
With Redikall Consciousness, I awaken my alignment with truthfulness.
With Redikall Consciousness, I awaken my synchronization with truthfulness.