Here are some statements that can change your mindset and transform your dependency to awaken independence:
~I transform and transcend my need for confidence.
~I transform and transcend my reluctance to change. ~I transform and transcend my resistance to take charge. ~I transform and transcend my reluctance to be responsible for my life. ~I transform and transcend my loneliness.
~I awaken self-reliance. ~I awaken the self-reliant me.
Recite the above statements 3-7 times to feel the difference. It would be a good idea to design your own statements.